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If you or someone you know is struggling with secondary infertility, today’s guest post is a must read. I feel very fortunate to have three wonderful children but I understand that infertility is something that impacts thousands of families. If you have been impacted by secondary infertility, this post is full of useful advice and coping strategies.
Coping With Secondary Infertility
If you’ve already had your first bundle of joy and are ready to conceive again but are finding that it is very challenging, you are not alone. Maybe you expected it to be easier the second time around but you’re finding that it is even harder than the first time!
You are probably wondering how could this be happening, does this happen to everyone else? The truth is that while many couples conceive quickly a second time around others may find it difficult the second time around.
If this is what you’re experiencing, here are some coping mechanisms that can help.
Face the Issue
It’s almost impossible to deal with an issue that you refuse to face. While you may be feeling waves of disappointment washing over you because the second time trying has led to one disappointment after another, it’s important that you air these feelings out with your partner.
Facing your fears head-on is the best way to start dealing with the problem.
Get Support
You probably know that at some point s you should see her medical support. You’re probably even considering an IVF procedure to boost your chances of conceiving.
However, what you may not know is that on this roller coaster ride that is so emotionally draining, you should look beyond each other to find emotional support in family and friends.
You can even try a support group if you don’t feel comfortable sharing with those closest to you. Having this support system of people who are battling the same giant, can be invaluable during this difficult time.
Gain Knowledge and Insight
During this time it is important that you try to get as much education as you can on what you are experiencing. Dig deep into all the material that is out there so that you can find out exactly how you can navigate this rocky road that you are currently on.
There are many couples who are facing this problem. Many choose to use holistic approaches to solve their issues.
Others choose to adopt children who need a home or even foster children instead. It’s up to you how you want to navigate your journey.
Be Communicative
Throughout this entire process, there’s one person who you should have high levels of communication with and this is your partner. If you’re feeling down in the dumps or you just feel like your head is spinning and you can’t take the stress anymore, they are the first person who should know.
Chances are high that they’re feeling exactly the same way and leaning on each other as a support system is your best chance of surviving this difficult time together.
Facing secondary fertility issues can be a very taxing time for any couple and if you are experiencing this know that you are not alone there are others out there who are facing the same issue. Be sure to lean on as many people as will help you during this difficult time, having people who can lift you up is essential.